Some people are coming in with heavy thoughts. Here are some words to clarify what is in your head and what is reality.
1) There is no failure, and in reality, only the connection of all: failure is something you make up in your mind due to the duality nature of our language, i.e., good v bad, beautiful v ugly, success v failure.
2) Thinking only produces thinking and no solutions. Calm your mind: all the answers you ever wanted are in the silence.
3) The past and future tenses would never work. Only the present tense makes you what you are and gives you what you want. It is always either you do or you don’t, and I am and I am not.
Learn why and how hypnosis works: always using the present tense.
Good luck.
